It is really not a competition

It is not. Really.

But reading a thread on one of my boards, and we talk about how some days that is exactly what it feels like.

I was married years, many years ahead of my college friends. DH and I started "trying" before, yet it seems most of my friends have at least one child older than ours. Not to mention the second round has begun for many of them, while here I am....

It is really not a competition. Really. That is what I tell myself. I have been told the old adage of things like "quality not quantitiy" etc.. But unlike Marry Poppins spoon full O sugar, it does not help the dissapointment go down any easier...